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Katharine
Hepburn met Spencer Tracy when she was 33. They were about to star
together in their first film "Woman
of the Year" and Kate knew immediately that she liked him.
Their relationship lasted for over 25 years both professionally
and privately. They never married because Kate had already been
married once and knew that it wasn't for her and Spencer was Catholic
and already wed. To Kate's credit she respected this and never asked
for more then his companionship. Its amazing to me that Kate, who
was always determined to get what she wanted in life, was capable
of giving her love, with no strings attached, so completely to Spencer.
While Mrs. Tracy was alive and even though Spencer was already gone,
she never spoke publicly of their relationship until her death.
Tracy's daughter, Susie and Kate were good friends and I think that
Kate had the satisfaction that she was able to have her love without
disrupting Spencer's family harmony. Kate always felt that an actor
should never marry. She said, "you're too involved with yourself,
and your work is too demanding, to give the necessary amount of
attention to another human being. Inevitably, that person feels
left out. And becomes unhappy. We must never make people unhappy.
Life's too short for that."
Their
famous meeting set the standard for their future films together.
Kate said, "I'm afraid I'm a little tall for you, Mr. Tracy".
"Don't worry Kate, he'll cut you down to size", was the
response from Joseph Mankiewicz. It was an immediate attraction
of opposites. During the filming of Woman
of the Year, George Stevens the Director said, "I saw Spence
and Kate's friendship developing right under my eyes."
"Their
relationship was remarkable from the beginning. Sometimes Kate even
sat at Spencer's feet when they went out to visit; she was always
metaphorically at his feet. He was the only man apart from her father
she completely trusted, respected, and admired. He was not only
her adored companion but also her trusted adviser, whose word on
whether she should play a particular part was law." Excerpt
from The life of Katharine Hepburn KATE, by Charles Higham.
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